If you're lucky, you will have a defining moment in your life. It might not seem lucky at the time, but consider living without one.
Going on this journey with C has changed me in profound ways, and we're only just beginning. Nonetheless, I'm trying to allow the changes to help me grow, learn, and find new meaning in my life, a redefined purpose. I'm not grateful for what he's facing, but I'm finding some solace in the positive changes I see happening in myself.